Ladies, What If Your Man Wants All Night Sex? Nigerian Ladies Share Their Strategies With Simply Samad

All-night marathon sex?

Busola Lamina

Ah! That’s marathon sex and if you ask me, I’ll gladly tell you that it’s not normal. It’s clearly stated in the Bible that sex should be minimal. Besides that, it’s high time we all realise that marriage is not all about sex. I don’t think any normal guy would be willing to embark on such a thing. Imagine a man having sex with a woman from 12:00 midnight till 5:30am. Are you sure the man is a human being? The truth of the matter is that if the man is a born again, he must understand that embarking on such a thing is not necessary.

Mrs. Constance

Look, let me tell you the truth. If I marry such a man and I realise after a week of marriage that he’s the kind of man who is addicted to the all night show syndrome, I don’t think I can live with such a man. Sex is not food and there’s more to marriage than sex. The more I think about it, the more I’m convinced that such a man exists. How can any man have sex from midnight till early in the morning? I don’t think such a man exists. Is he a machine? Where will such energy come from? I don’t think any normal human being will act that way when it comes to having sex with a woman to whom he is legally married.

Mrs. Favour Nwachukwu

Before we delve into this all night show issue, I want you to understand there we have two kinds of women. The first consists of women like sex and they don’t pretend about it. The second is made up of women who don’t really like sex. As for me, I believe sex is important but not to the extent of having an all night show. I can never do the marathon thing with any man. No way. If I realise that the man I’m married to is like that, , I’ll have to make him understand. To do this, I’ll teach him how to slow it down. I’ll bluntly tell him that an all night show is too long for me to cope with. Some women can cope with having sex very night. You don’t have to report him to anyone. Just let him understand that marriage is beyond romance and sex.

Mrs. Ebun Olowo

Ah! I’ll complain o. Marathon sex? No way. We’re talking about 5-6 hours of sex in a single night. Never! I’m not a machine. Have we forgotten that I’m going to take care of the children in the morning? If my man is like that, then he has to adjust to my taste. Two to three rounds of sex should be okay for any woman. After all, it’s not food. If I allow the man have his way, I’d probably die before a year runs out. Imagine if I’m pregnant and my husband decides to do an all night show, I’ll most likely have a miscarriage.

Joy Dike

In such a situation, then I’ll pray for my man. I’ll ask God for the strength to cope with such a man. It’s what my husband wants that I’ll give to him. I’ll simply try my best and leave the rest.

Mrs. Adegboyega

If I can cope, I’ll stay but if I can’t, I’ll scream for help straight away. What kind of man is that? How come? Does he want to kill me? The man must be a very useless man to want to have an all night show. In fact, he must be cursed.

Yetunde Omolafe

I’ll run away o. You’re asking me where I’ll run to? I’ll run to my mother’s house and complain to her. I’m sure that by the time my mother realizes that her daughter is about to become a victim in the hands of sex starved man, she’ll come to my rescue buy reprimanding the man. Does he want to kill me? I’ll tell him to cool down and relax. How can I possibly have sex like that?

Jane Iheanachor

He’s my man for crying out loud but to be candid, I’ll try to reduce the hours to just two or three. There’s no need to report him to anyone. I’ll handle it in a mature way. There’s no room for a third party.

Precious Iwuanyawu

It’s a very serious matter o. The truth is that I’d have known the man’s sexual appetite before I married him. That’s one of the advantages of premarital sex. With that, I’d have known his sexual preference before taking the plunge with him. If however, I don’t find out and end up marrying him, I’ll talk to him and let him understand how I feel. Too much of everything is bad. I discover he’s a sex addict, I’ll learn to cope to prevent him from going out.