Discovery Of Wife's Tattoo Shatters Husband's Trust

My wife and I have had many discussions regarding tattoos. She would say she wanted one; I'd disagree.

Well, just before her birthday she had her best friend, a tattoo artist, give her a small tattoo of a dragonfly with dots representing our four children. I didn't know about it for about six weeks, until I walked up behind her at her computer desk and noticed it on her upper shoulder. Our kids knew and hadn't said anything.

I got really mad and left the house for a while. When I returned and began arguing with her, she would say only that it was her body, and she would do whatever she wanted.

I have gotten over the tattoo part, but I haven't forgotten about not knowing and how I finally found out. I am hurt that she didn't tell me. She doesn't think it's worth apologizing for. It seems like everything she does now is one big secret.

Please advise...

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  1. A Mountain out of a mole hill! Hubby shud get over himself Already!! Its a small tattoo repping her kids...its not like she killed someone..besides if he wasn't so rigid she wud have been comfortable enuf to tell him & mayb a compromise wud have been agreed on! Or he is going to divorce her bcos of a small dragon fly tattoo...but it took him 4 weeks to notice..so he isn't regularly conversant wit his wife's body! The dude has deeper issues than the tattoo joor

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  2. I'm quite certain the husband wouldn't want to shake you after reading your comment but you have pointed out some very glaring truths in his predicament. But i tend to disagree wit her on some points - like when she said the body was hers and she can do with it as she pleases [A BIG NO FROM ME]. This is not a boyfriend n girlfriend relationship and should not be handled like a play thing. I have seen couples break up over things even not as big as a tattoo. You'd be shocked at how the mind works once trust flies out of the window.

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  3. Ur right!! Her body belongs to them!! That's the vow she took at the altar!! Hope they get thru this and remember the reason they fell in love!

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